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Verbal Comm.
Refers to the words we use during the comm. process
TERM 2
Rules
DEFINITION 2
Agreed upon and provide a structure for what is socially
acceptable
TERM 3
Constitutive Rules
DEFINITION 3
Identify appropriate words and behaviros
TERM 4
Regulative Rules
DEFINITION 4
-Control comm. by managing comm. interaction-Are context
bound, change with audience and context
TERM 5
Physical Context
DEFINITION 5
Where you actually are, physical environment
Cultural Context
Has a huge impact on the words we useU.S. has a very low
context culture, use words in a very direct manner
TERM 7
Historical Context
DEFINITION 7
related to culture, but focuses on traditions and history of the
relation ship.Looking at how we have done this beforewhen
have had convos in one setting, is hard to change to a
different setting
TERM 8
Relational Context
DEFINITION 8
What types of messages are aloud in this relationship?
TERM 9
Symbols can
be____or_____.
DEFINITION 9
-Concrete-Resemble what they represent-Abstract-arbitrary
and nonrepresentational, represent non-concrete word, ex.
patriotism, love, lie
TERM 10
Denotative
DEFINITION 10
Dictionary meaning of the word
Connotative
What the word means to that person or in the particular
contextCan't separate the words being said from the person
saying them
TERM 12
Interpretation of language is
_______.
DEFINITION 12
subjective-Everyone interprets differently
TERM 13
Jargon
DEFINITION 13
The language of a particular profession, activity, group, or
event.
TERM 14
Ambiguous Language
DEFINITION 14
Refers to how our language ranges from being very abstract
to very concrete.Can use very intentionally, politicians
TERM 15
How does ambiguous language influence our
own convos?
DEFINITION 15
you don't want to express your opinion on a topic so just
make a general statement.Can lead to mistakes when used
in historical aspect.
Euphemism
Words that take the sting out of the statement.she passed
away instead of she died
TERM 17
Relative Language
DEFINITION 17
The words that we use and the way that we perceive the
worldMeans one thing to me, and something totally different
to you
TERM 18
Static Evaluation
DEFINITION 18
Refuse to let go of our perception of someone, refuse to look
at somebody in a different way.
TERM 19
Direct vs Indirect
DEFINITION 19
Direct- Straightforwardindirect-subtle, roundabout
TERM 20
Formal vs Informal
DEFINITION 20
Formal-Used when comm. with somebody of higher power
(parent, teacher, boss, etc.)Informal-relaxed, casual, familiar
verbal style (friends, co-workers)
Clarity vs Equivocation
Clarity- simplistic, down to earth, understandable nature of
comm.Equivocation- Non straightforward comm. that
appears ambiguous, contradictory, obscure, or even evasive.
Choosing specific words that may not demonstrate the whole
truth
TERM 22
Cognitive Function
DEFINITION 22
Use of language to acquire knowledge, reason, and to make
sense of the worldStrong connection with culture
TERM 23
Uncertainty Reduction Theory
DEFINITION 23
Human communication is used to gain knowledge and create
understanding by reducing uncertainty, therefore increasing
predictability
TERM 24
Self-Disclosure
DEFINITION 24
Purposefully revealing personal information about oneself
TERM 25
Social Reality Function
DEFINITION 25
Verbal comm. serves to create our social reality
Linguistic Determinism
Language determines thought
TERM 27
Linguistic Relativity
DEFINITION 27
Distinctions encoded in one language are unique to that
language alone."there is no limit to the structural diversity of
languages"
TERM 28
Sapir-Whorf Hypothesis
DEFINITION 28
The language we learn, as well as the culture we are exposed
to, is used to shape our entire reality
TERM 29
Group Identity Funtion
DEFINITION 29
Verbal comm. serves to distinguish one group from another
and provides a sense of similarity for its members
TERM 30
Social Change Function
DEFINITION 30
Language can inhibit our abilities to perceive the world in
unique ways, or it can dynamically change habits and
prejudices
Powerful vs powerless Language
Pful- Viewed as assertive,direct,confident, how you are
actually saying the wordspLess- Hesitant, not
straightforward, absent
TERM 32
Hesitation
DEFINITION 32
Makes language powerless
TERM 33
Tag Question
DEFINITION 33
Put a question at the end of your statementpowerless
TERM 34
Hedges
DEFINITION 34
Not fully committing to something"I guess...",
"Maybe....",powerless
TERM 35
Intensifiers
DEFINITION 35
Unsuccessful attempt to make words sound stronger"Test
was SO SO difficult"powerless
Disclaimer
Discrediting yourself before making a statement."I'm not
really sure if I know what I'm talking about, but....."powerless
TERM 37
Politeness
DEFINITION 37
Overly polite forms are powerlessDepends on cultureIn the
south, makes you seem powerful
TERM 38
Lifespan
DEFINITION 38
Someones ageFor someone who is elderly, we may be super
polite or speak louder because of hard hearing
TERM 39
Context
DEFINITION 39
Context of verbal comm. will impact the outcome of the
message
TERM 40
Sex
DEFINITION 40
If person is male or female.Maculine- report talkFeminine-
rapport talk
Nonverbal Comm
Any communication other than the words we sayhow we say
words (physical appearance, gesture, touching)
TERM 42
Nonverbal is ____ _____ than verbal comm.
DEFINITION 42
more crediblemore likely to believe nonverbal than verbal
TERM 43
Nonverbal comm is both
____and____based.
DEFINITION 43
Biologically and culturally
TERM 44
Biologically based
DEFINITION 44
1.Our bodies have a physiological reaction that we cannot
control, fight/flight response, angry2.involuntary
TERM 45
Paul Eckmann
DEFINITION 45
Researcher in comm. and emotion;6 universal facial
expressions: sadness, anger, disgust, fear, surprise,
happiness
Microexpression
Expression that flashes across the face very quickly
TERM 47
Leakage
DEFINITION 47
Express something nonverbally that we are trying to
controlMore intense the emotion, more likely leakage will
occur
TERM 48
Display Rules
DEFINITION 48
1.Culturally based2.Tell us the approp. display of nonverb.
comm.3.part of us, dont spend large amount of time thinking
about it.4.Think about when something at risk, in power
situations, or if unsure of rules
TERM 49
Nonverbal comm. is often _____
DEFINITION 49
ambiguous, Misinterpreted-Difficult to figure out-Try to
interpret meaning into something we don't have much info
on-
TERM 50
very important to try and avoid _______
_______.
DEFINITION 50
nonverbal distractions
We all have a _______ for nonverbal comm.
baseline-Some smile alot, stand closer to people, dont make
direct eye contact-Dont know peoples baseline unless around
them often
TERM 52
Blank expresser
DEFINITION 52
Someone who maintains a blank facial expression-not very
common, difficult to read their facial expression
TERM 53
3 functions of nonverbal comm.
DEFINITION 53
1. Express like and dislike2.Express Power3.Turn taking
(responsiveness)
TERM 54
Express
power
DEFINITION 54
statusNumber one way: way they dressproxemics-more
powerful, more space they take up, feel they have more
space owned to them
TERM 55
Turn taking(responsivenes)
DEFINITION 55
Don't literally tell someone it is their turn to speakLook at
nonverballyCorresponds to how much you like the
personmore highlighted through technology
Physical Appearance
Tell us about their hygiene, status,gender, age, intelligence,
health, ethnicity, interestsMake assumptions base on
appearancemost notable form of nonverb comm.used most
commonly to make a first impression
TERM 57
Kinesic
DEFINITION 57
Bodily movement-gestures, posture, whole body movement
TERM 58
Whole body displays of emotion
DEFINITION 58
affect display
TERM 59
use in conversation for understanding
DEFINITION 59
delivery gesture(holding up fingers, nodding of head)
TERM 60
Primarily signals
feedback
DEFINITION 60
citing gesture
used to seek clarification, show you don't
understand
Seeing gesture
TERM 62
Turn to someone when is there turn to speak
DEFINITION 62
Turn taking
TERM 63
_____ are most expressive part of face.
DEFINITION 63
eyes
TERM 64
Duchenne
Smile
DEFINITION 64
Fake smile
TERM 65
Paralanguage
DEFINITION 65
What is happening with your voice in
interactions/communication
Vocal distracters/segregates
also called vocal fillersuhm,errs,you know,likeuse when
nervous, unsure of what your going to say
TERM 67
an increase in _______ gives a decrease in
______.
DEFINITION 67
vocal segregates, credibility
TERM 68
pitch, rate, volume, dialect
DEFINITION 68
Vocal qualitiesNeed to be self aware of these when speaking
TERM 69
Laughing, crying, whining
DEFINITION 69
Vocal characterizersDon't think about them unless are odd,
like a distinctive laugh
TERM 70
Haptics
DEFINITION 70
touchcan be accidental
Functions of touch
1. positive effect-to show social and emotional support2.playful-
tickling,wrestling,high five3.control-hold someone back from fight,
get someones attention, get somebody to move4.ritualistic-do in
ritual format. shake hand when meet someone, kiss kids goodbye
to school,team handshake5.task-must use touch in order to
perform certain job.6.hybrid-combo of 2 touches
TERM 72
Proxemics
DEFINITION 72
space
TERM 73
4 realms of space
DEFINITION 73
intimate: 0-6 in, kids,spousepersonal: .5-4 ft,close friends,
family, spouseSocial: 4-12 ft, business transactions, cocktail
convos, conference roomsPublic: 12 feet and greater, public
forum, sermon, commencement speach
TERM 74
Expectancy violation theory
DEFINITION 74
Go through our daily interactions expect people to maintain
certain spatial norms; when they fail to do so, very
noticeable to us and have a negative reaction.If person more
powerful- suck it up and move onIf equal power or less-may
say something
TERM 75
communicate through space we have
ownership of
DEFINITION 75
Use of color
Set up furniture in a home
Direct flow of traffic through space
TERM 77
American culture is relatively obsessed with
_____.
DEFINITION 77
time
TERM 78
Informal time (chronemics)
DEFINITION 78
nonverbal use of time, how we actually use time
TERM 79
How long it is going to take us to do
something, how much time we allocate to
something
DEFINITION 79
DurationHow long we think something should take.
TERM 80
whether or not someone is on time and is it
okay for that person to not be on time
DEFINITION 80
puntualityculture specific
What you do with your time
activityhow much can you get done in the time you have
allocated for it.
TERM 82
deception
DEFINITION 82
includes all communications or omissions that serve to
distort or omit the truth.intentionalviolates both relational
and conversational rules
TERM 83
entering into reactions assuming that person
is being truthful
DEFINITION 83
truth bias
TERM 84
Lie
DEFINITION 84
one person intending to mislead another, doing so
deliberately, without prior notification and without being
asked to do so.
TERM 85
Concealing
DEFINITION 85
withholding information; not saying anything untrue, just
don;t say anything at all
Falsifying
saying something untrue
TERM 87
direct falsification
DEFINITION 87
flat out lying
TERM 88
exaggeration
DEFINITION 88
overstate, becomes lie when is intended to make you believe
something
TERM 89
equivocation
DEFINITION 89
giving false impression without saying something untrue
TERM 90
understate
DEFINITION 90
downplay how you actually feelform of lying we usually find
admireable
We usually choose to conceal or to falsify?
concealeasier because if you lie, you have to remember that
lie
TERM 92
Benevolent vs malicious lies
DEFINITION 92
benevolent- meant to help the other personmalicious- meant
to harm another person
TERM 93
Motives for lying
DEFINITION 93
partner-focused: dont want to hurt feelings, help maintain
self esteemself-focused: want to enhance or protect our own
self imagerelationship-focused: limit relationship harms or
conflicts
TERM 94
4 steps in the listening process
DEFINITION 94
1. Receiving- acknowledge the message, fail to acknowledge
may make them stop sending or change the message2.
Recall- Being able to remember the message may make
them stop sending or change the message3. Rate-
Evaluation,form an opinion of the message4. Responding-
providing feedback, if fail at one of previous steps, cannot
respond
TERM 95
6 barriers to listening
DEFINITION 95
noise- physical, psychological, semantic (ESL, improper grammar,
slang)complexity- message becomes to complex, we tune
outmessage overload- multitasking, preoccupiedlack of training-
don't think we are bad listeners bc do it all the time, but is a skill
we can improvelistening gap- gap btwn # words person can say in
a min.(200-250), and amount brain can process(800)Poor listening
habits
selective listening
listen to part of message that interests us
TERM 97
Talking too much
DEFINITION 97
purposefully don't give someone info because you know they
will share, don't have time to get a word in, also selective
listeners
TERM 98
Pseudolistening
DEFINITION 98
pretend to listen
TERM 99
gap filling
DEFINITION 99
fill gap bc are processing info and think you know what other
person is going to say
TERM 100
defensive listening
DEFINITION 100
when person makes the message a personal attack
ambushing
listening to gather info that can later be used against that
person
TERM 102
People centered
listener
DEFINITION 102
concerned about the relationship; try to find common ground
with you, remember what was said in the
pastdrawbacks:people take advantage of you, don;t listen for
content of facts
TERM 103
Action centered
listener
DEFINITION 103
Wants to organize the info so they can perform a task or
move ongrow impatient with asideswant error free messages,
asks a lot of questionsgood at getting the job donespeaker
gets defensive bc of all the questions asked, wall being built
TERM 104
content centered
listener
DEFINITION 104
listens for facts and positionsconcerned with what info there
is and opinions of people involved, not that it is error free
(judge)
TERM 105
time centered
listener
DEFINITION 105
time is most important factordon't waste timecan be bad bc
do not explore issues as much as shouldmay need to be a
diff type of listener due to the situation
4 ways to improve listening
empathy- think about how the other person is looking at the
situation, doesnt always have to be about the big issue, may be
abt small thingNon-judgemental feedback- don't say "you're
wrong", listen and say "have you thought about it this
way"Paraphrase-important when you dont understand what they
are saying, especially in complex message.Dialogue enhancers- "I
understand" "I am listening" "i see your point" "tell me more" be
patient when waiting for response
TERM 107
depth processing
DEFINITION 107
advanced or higher level listening skill
TERM 108
Surface level processing
DEFINITION 108
listener does not have to engage in a search for a deeper ,
underlying meaning
TERM 109
Presage
DEFINITION 109
"personal and contextual preconditions" that influence how
people attend to and process information
TERM 110
metacognitive listening strategies
DEFINITION 110
techniques used to monitor listening behavior and
comprehension
Problem-solving mls
guess what do not understand while listening
TERM 112
planning-evaluation mls
DEFINITION 112
prepare for listening tasks and evaluate results of listening
efforts
TERM 113
directed attention mls
DEFINITION 113
help listeners stay on track and concentrate