
Hero Dad and Hero Mom
by Melinda Hardin
Hero Dad is about a little boy whose dad is a soldier.
Hero Mom is about several children who have moms
that are soldiers. The children in these books talk
about the many things their caregiver does that
makes them a superhero. Even though the children
know their caregiver is not a typical superhero with
traditional super powers, they still consider them to be their superhero.
Discussion and Questions:
• Ask the children to name their favorite superhero. If the child is very young or nonverbal, show
pictures of common superheroes and encourage the child to point to their favorite picture.
• Ask the child, “What does it mean to be a hero?” If the child has trouble answering, ask questions such
as, “Is a hero someone who helps or hurts others?” or “Does a hero do easy or difficult things?”
• Tell the children that a hero is someone who is brave, works hard, and helps other people. Explain that
heroes are not always the characters seen on TV and in books. Point to the pictures of the
superheroes in a book or environment and explain that these are not the only superheroes to be
celebrated.
• Talk about the words in the story that the child may not know. Ask them what a word means.
Demonstrate reflective listening by repeating their answer.
Some vocabulary words that may be discussed in two books are below:
• For very young children, ask where questions (i.e., where in the tank, where is the cloak). This allows
children with limited language to point and engage in the discussion. If the child is unable to answer,
help them point to the picture and model naming the object.
Activities:
Ages Birth to 5:
• Hero in Me
• Remind children that they can be a hero too.
• Discuss the characters of a hero with the children. For very young or non-verbal children, list
several ways they are like a hero (brave, strong, etc.)
• Take a picture of the each child in a “hero pose.”
• For example, the child may flex their muscles or use a prop.
• If possible, give children the option to wear a piece of their military caregivers uniform for
pictures (i.e., a military hat).
• Write “I’m A Hero Because…” at the top of a piece of card stock, and help each child glue the
picture to the cardstock under the words.
• Write the child’s answer to the hero question under the picture, if they were able to answer.