Interpersonal Communication Chamberlain University Interpers, Lecture notes of Accounting

Interpersonal Communication Chamberlain University Interpersonal Communication 5A. Covert RehearsalI would like to rehearse the conversation I shared in one of the weekly communication log. The conversation that held the greatest impact on me was the face to face conversation between my manger and myself. I would like to replay this conversation in hopes of a different outcome. Instead of walking away as I did previously feeling offended, getting upset, and being lost for words, I would like to try and rehearse how things would have been if I shared how she made me feel. Now as I think back to this day I remember it being an early morning before the sun was even up. Everyone was strolling in with their cups of coffee, some smiling and some still trying to wake up. As for myself I was still trying to motivate myself for the days work flow,and being in my first trimester of pregnancy made it even more of a struggle because I was experiencing some morning sickness. As I remember pre

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Interpersonal Communication
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Interpersonal Communication
5A. Covert Rehearsal
I would like to rehearse the conversation I shared in one of the weekly communication
log. The conversation that held the greatest impact on me was the face to face conversation
between my manger and myself. I would like to replay this conversation in hopes of a different
outcome. Instead of walking away as I did previously feeling offended, getting upset, and being
lost for words, I would like to try and rehearse how things would have been if I shared how she
made me feel. Now as I think back to this day I remember it being an early morning before the
sun was even up. Everyone was strolling in with their cups of coffee, some smiling and some still
trying to wake up. As for myself I was still trying to motivate myself for the day’s work flow,
and being in my first trimester of pregnancy made it even more of a struggle because I was
experiencing some morning sickness. As I remember precisely I was standing in front of the
printer making copies at the front desk. Across from me was the charge nurse office, which is
where my manger Stacey was, to the left of me was the floor secretary who was settling in at her
desk and to the right of me was the physician room where the providers were switching out.
During this conversation there obviously was plenty of others around to have such a personal
conversation. Although when Stacey addressed me it was in a quiet interpersonal manner I think
that if the conversation was had in a more closed area where so many others were not present it
could have changed the dynamics of my response.
5B. Covert Practice
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Interpersonal Communication Chamberlain University Interpersonal Communication 5A. Covert Rehearsal I would like to rehearse the conversation I shared in one of the weekly communication log. The conversation that held the greatest impact on me was the face to face conversation between my manger and myself. I would like to replay this conversation in hopes of a different outcome. Instead of walking away as I did previously feeling offended, getting upset, and being lost for words, I would like to try and rehearse how things would have been if I shared how she made me feel. Now as I think back to this day I remember it being an early morning before the sun was even up. Everyone was strolling in with their cups of coffee, some smiling and some still trying to wake up. As for myself I was still trying to motivate myself for the day’s work flow, and being in my first trimester of pregnancy made it even more of a struggle because I was experiencing some morning sickness. As I remember precisely I was standing in front of the printer making copies at the front desk. Across from me was the charge nurse office, which is where my manger Stacey was, to the left of me was the floor secretary who was settling in at her desk and to the right of me was the physician room where the providers were switching out. During this conversation there obviously was plenty of others around to have such a personal conversation. Although when Stacey addressed me it was in a quiet interpersonal manner I think that if the conversation was had in a more closed area where so many others were not present it could have changed the dynamics of my response. 5B. Covert Practice

The setting was pretty much every one getting in and preparing for the day. So as I stood at the printer waiting for my copies I was addressed by my manger. The dialogue went something like this: Stacy: “Hey girl, you feeling better today?” Me: “not really, I just can’t wait to get out of this first trimester.” Stacey: “Awe, you’re almost there” Me: “Yea” Stacey: “Are your kids from the same guy?” Me: (looking shocked; gathering thoughts) Me: “umm, yes, except for my oldest. She’s 11 so I had her early in my first year of college.” Stacey: “Oh ok” Me: (walking off lost for words) Here is where I would like to switch up the conversation for a change of outcome. Instead of walking away I would like to have responded differently as such: Stacey: “Are your kids from the same guy?” Me: I’m sorry, but I think that is a very personal question to ask someone. Stacey: oh, I am sorry I did not mean to get in your business. Me: It’s ok, I just feel confused as to what will make you ask me a question like that. Me: I know you probably ask that innocently but its offensive, unprofessional, and degrading to me. Stacey: I truly apologies Tina! I understand how you could feel that way and I honestly did not mean to make you feel that way at all. I am deeply sorry! Me: No worries, apology accepted. Me: (smile and walks away after a hug to assure all is well)

6C. Reflection on Planning I think the conversation with my boss was the hardest for me. When this conversation initially took place I immediately took offense. To me that is just not something you ask a person especially not in a professional setting between a manager and employee who share no personal interactions. At first I thought to myself on how profiling the question was and even though I was able to respond calm and respectively I walked away with angry and upset. Being able to act out other outcomes was relieving to know that I have the power to control which way a conversation goes. My actions and responses can change the dynamics of the most aggressive conversation. It is all about controlling your emotions and thinking before reacting or responding.