Divorce in a family
Why did not they manage to create happy family?
Causes of divorce in a family issue is relatively new, but already urgent problem. It became widespread
only a couple of decades ago. According to the statistics, in 1950s only 3% of families got divorced, in
‘60s it was already 10%. In 1980s due to different reasons 33% of family could not avoid divorce. Today
the number of divorces is about 45%. So, there is no need to explain why this essay about divorce has
much importance and must be read. Besides, young generation starts to forget what value family has
and why they should try to save it.
Usually young families that exist for less than a year get divorced, also 1/3 of divorces happen in families
that exist for 1 – 5 years. That is why the problem of divorces is the problem of young people.
Of course, there are cases when divorce is necessary, when husband and wife do not respect each other,
do not love each other and do not take into consideration the opinion of each other, so in this case a
man and a woman in a family are almost enemies. So how can it be possible to avoid divorce in such a
family? Is it necessary at all? Trying to save the image of a happy family, parents may hurt emotionally
their children.
There are about 120 children on a hundred divorced families. And in the most of cases children stay with
their mothers. Besides, more than half of women do not marry for the second time, it means that there
is no male influence on a child in the process of upbringing.
And our school much feminized lately cannot replace the role of the father in a family. This fact leads to
bad consequences.
One of the main reasons of unhappy family life and as a consequence of divorce is the fact that future
husband and wife do not each other well enough before they decide to get married. When a young man
and a young woman with similar opinions and interests meet each other, we can say that they are lucky.
However, in most of cases people have to learn to live together, to adapt to family life. Unfortunately,
not everyone has patience, desire and knowledge to do that.
Let’s look at the example of two families. In both families husband and wife are talented people. In both
families they love each other. But the first family gets divorced, and the second one does not. What did
